Benny, Benson Jr Lee Sumalinog

1977 - 2004
LocationDavao City ,philippines
Age26 years
Date of Birth12/1977
Date of Death3/2004
Visitors581 since 29/11/2006
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benny ,march 31/04 26,seaman,assistant cook,davao city,2 brothers,a very tragic death.
I still can't beleived that my son passed away because he had join only a month and he text me
because it was my birthday,2days after I received a call he passed,as a mother it is very painful
coming from your womb,But I know God has plans for him and I let it go.Benny I will alway miss the
calls texting messages and the I LOVE,I MISS YOU MA,those words the most precious in my eyes that I
cannot help but cry.I know he did not commit suicide,somebody have done it ,I hope these people
concern may realized what have they done to my Son.May Good Lord will forgive you as I have forgiven
them.Please pray for my son ,Ben,Mama loves you sooo much.this coming December 14,is his
birthday.happy birthday,son.See you in heaven..mama


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Safely Home

Safely Home

I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief is over
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.

Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.

And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still:
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.

There is still work waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth -
You shall rest in Jesus' land.

When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!

Mary Sumalinog (Mother) October 22, 2009

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Send this rose to everyone you care about including me if you care. C how many times you get this back.♥

Dessajosephsmom Smith July 25, 2009

benny

Dear Benny, there are times when I am alone my memories fly back and I want to recall everything the first time you were born until you become a full grown up,this make me feel happy thou I shed tears of joy that I was able to borrowed you from God, 26 year was the most important life with you.Mama is just around and I know you are just beside me though I may not see you.thank you so much for being nice to mama.I love you always.

Mary Sumalinog (Mother) January 16, 2009

My Son

Four have passed but still my love to my is always in my heart,there are times I cry for I miss him so much,my friendssay why long for him .let it go.Yes they may say that maybe because they don't see how a son have gone, I just smile and don't react.I only pray for them.I know my son Benson Jr. is always watching me.Benny,mama is always praying for you,Marben,my infant angel,Lolo Luis,Lola Casiana.I know you are all in a peaceful and beautiful place.
I LOVE YOU DEARLY

Marylsumalinog (Mother) September 18, 2008

Thinking of you from one heartbroken mum to another.XXX

Ask My Mum How Is She

My Mum, she tells a lot of lies
She never did before.
From now until the day she dies.
She'll tell a whole lot more.

She used to tell the truth, a lot
But now it doesn't matter.
I died and went to heaven,
Her life is all a-shatter.

Ask my Mum how is she.
She'll say, 'Yes, I'm fine!'
She wants to beg 'Please help me.
I can't find that boy of mine!'

Ask my Mum, how is she,
She'll say, 'I'm alright.'
If that's the truth then tell me,
Why does she cry each night?

Ask my Mum, how is she,
She seems to cope so well.
She didn't have a choice, you see,
Nor the strength to yell.

You think you know the feeling,
But this cannot be.
For even though you loved me,
You didn't love as much as she.

She will smile and tell you,
'It's o.k. God has a plan.'
But she will turn away and cry
'Cause she just can't understand.

Tell a joke and she will laugh,
But she is not o.k.
She wants to share the joke with me,
But it will not be today.

I watch from here, in Heaven.
Her distress disturbs my peace.
Will someone please take care of her,
And thus take care of me?

'Some day you will feel better.'
'Yes I will.' she lies.
She knows this will not happen,
Until the day she dies.

'I was so lucky!
I had him all those years!'
(They passed in a minute,
I shed so many tears.)

Ask my Mum how is she,
She'll say, 'Thank you. Good.'
She cannot tell you how she feels.
Oh, how I wish she could.

Ask my Mum how is she,
'I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping.'
For God's sake, Mum, just tell the truth
Just say your heart is broken.

Ask my Mum how is she,
'I'm well, I'm good. And you?'
I'll shake my head in Heaven.
It simply isn't true.

She'll love me all her life.
I loved her all of mine.
But if you ask how is she,
She'll lie and say she's fine.

Her carnival is over.
She's stepped off the carousel.
But, to save you feeling badly,
She'll say, 'Thanks, all is well.'

My Mum, she's not gone mad, yet.
But, oh so very nearly.
Don't ask my Mum how is she,
Ask how is she, really.

I am here in Heaven.
I cannot hug from here.
If she lies to you, don't listen.
Hug her, hold her near.

On the day we meet again,
We'll smile and I'll be bold.
I'll say, 'You're lucky to get in here, Mum,
With all the lies you told!'

Softly the leaves of memory fall.
Gently I gather and treasure them all,
Unseen, unheard, you are always near,
STILL LOVED, still missed, so very dear.
No length of time can take away,
My thoughts of you from day to day,
Whatever else I fail to do,
I never fail to think of you.
Author Unknown

Jesus said,
My sheep hear My voice, I know them, they follow Me. I give them eternal life, they shall never perish, neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand. John 10 26-28

Mary this verse comforts me so much, I hope it will you too. xoxo

Rosemary Sisofalvin (Friend) April 27, 2007

Hi Mary,
I just ran across your sweet Benny's site, my brother Alvin Cremeans also has a site here if you care to look it up. I would post a link but we can't do that on this site. I just love your Bennys smile, does he get that from Mama? I hope you are holding up sweetie, I will come visit Benny as often as I can. I hope to see you on my brothers site also. Thank you again for the beautiful candle you lit for him on that beautiful site that you sent me. I sure love it and appreciate it so very much. You take care of yourself dear friend. Love to you and Benny.
Rosemary sis of Alvin Cremeans

Rosemary Sisofalvin (Friend) April 25, 2007

Always Remember I love you,Benny

Ben,time fly so fast that looking back the years it almost 3years this coming March 31/07,You are always in our hearts with Papa ,Nikki,Jesse.some of our friends remembers you always.As I have said I will miss you so much,and the love of a mother will not fade away.bye,mama

Marylsumalinog (Mother) November 29, 2006
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